Dating several men
I know I need to make a decision before things go too far (becoming too physical), but how do I know when?
I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.
I was afraid if a guy found out that I was dating someone else, he would drop me.
When I was smitten with a new man (fantasizing that he liked me as much as I liked him) I immediately declined date invitations from other men.
The logic behind multi-dating isn’t rooted so much in the need to distract oneself with a bunch of dudes following a breakup (although it totally can be) as it is in what men have long called "playing the field.” And, it's certainly not a new concept.It's just gotten more buzz ever since Chloe, the infamous party girl and lead character from Of course, I’m not the only 20-something who jumped into a rotation immediately following a breakup.Nina, a 25-year-old accountant living in Chicago, started hers after a four-year relationship ended. And, Monica*, a 25-year-old producer in New York City, can also echo the experience. Last month, I wrote to two men that I was very interested in.The good news is that both of them wrote me back and I have been seeing both for the past 2-3 weeks.